Self-control means to
have full grip or control over oneself. Firm grasp over thoughts, attitude,
reason, desires, ambitions, and longings. Our bodies have to serve the spirit
and soul and not vice versa.
So
where does self-control come in?
Everywhere.
It
takes self-control to show true godly love instead of lust and infatuation—to love others not as the world
loves, but as Christ loved us. “And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for
us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma” (Ephesians
5:2, emphasis added throughout).
It
takes self-control to have godly joy when we are facing a difficult situation in life. “Though now
you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full
of glory” (1 Peter 1:8).
It
takes self-control to get along with others and make peace instead
of constantly getting into conflict. “Blessed are the peacemakers” (Matthew
5:9).
It
takes self-control to patiently bear with others rather than quickly condemning them. It’s very
hard to “be patient with all” (1 Thessalonians 5:14).
It
takes self-control to not automatically look out only for yourself but kindly look
out for other people (Philippians 2:4).
It
takes self-control to do good, to go through the narrow gate toward life rather than the
evil, wide gate toward destruction (Matthew 7:13-14).
It
takes self-control to be faithful and not have our faith shattered by the mocking of scoffers (2
Peter 3:3-4).
It
takes self-control to be a gentle servant of the Lord (2 Timothy 2:24), showing compassion and
mercy with real love as God does with us.
Be Blessed and be a Blessing!
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